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29 and holding

Thursday, February 25th, 2010

That’s right folks, I am now 29 for the first time.  I will continue to turn 29 every year for the rest of my life.  I plan to stay young.  All I need to do is every year, just get Superman to fly backwards around the earth fast enough to reverse time.  Never mind that I’d have to re-live that year for eternity.   It’s a good plan.  I just need to find Superman and convince him its a good idea.  I should be able to talk him into it based upon my interactions with my roommate.  They’re both boy scouts.  Wish me luck. Hehe.

Pink Birthday SombreroIt was a good birthday.  My parents, my younger sister, and my brother in law traveled up to visit over this past weekend.  We went out to eat at Manny’s Mexican Seafood place. I got to wear a big, pink sombrero and enjoyed a free fried ice cream. Afterwards, enjoyed a relaxing night in front of the fire and then hung out in the hot tub at their hotel.  Let me say, that’s a new level of uncomfortably awkward…swim suit in front of family members, including the sister that’s not quite comfortable with my transition.  It went pretty well though.  I decided to wear the one piece to avoid totally freaking out my sister.

On Saturday, we had gone to the Leinenkugels Brewery.  My sister had wanted a tour and to do some tasting.  While there, we were looking through their gift shop, and I came across a selection of pancake mixes.  I decided to invite my family over for breakfast on Sunday, despite breakfast being offered at the hotel.  It was great!  I finally got to serve my family at my dining room table.  We made both blueberry and apple spice pancakes.  They were delicious, especially the apple spice.  I think more than any gift, having my family up to visit and being able to make breakfast and enjoy it with them was the best thing I could have gotten.

After breakfast, my family headed for home.  I took a nice nap on the couch, and then afterwards went down the street to another birthday celebration for a good friend of mine, Laurentia.  She’s professor at the University of Wisconsin – Stout.  My friend Lyle made an incredible french onion soup for all of us.  It was drenched in gooey cheese and was so full of flavor.  The stuff is like Lembas bread, one small bowl was enough to fill a grown man’s stomach.   I really enjoyed my weekend.  It was a lot of fun spending time with friends.

My week has been nice too.  I took Monday and Tuesday off of work in order to work on personal projects.  My friend Addison came up from Madison in order to get things moving on Genderverse.org.  If you head over to visit it at some point, you’ll see that we’ve made a lot of progress.  We’re not quite ready to launch the site yet, but we’re almost there.  I’d say by the start of next week we’ll be ready.  I’m excited to finally see us get to the point of being able to use the site.  Now the intimidating part of creating content approaches.  It’ll be a challenge, but it’ll be good.  I recently realized that it’s been 8 years now since my initial research, and I really need to get back into the swing of things there.  Research time will be a great experience.

This week has been saturated with Super Heroes like a sumo wrestler’s daiper after a big match.  I’ve been reading the giant pile of comics I have sitting on my floor trying to catch up.  On top of that, I received the first season of Justice League Unlimited from Netflix.  It’s been fun so far.  I have to say, reading a year’s worth of Wonder Woman comics is really enjoyable.  You get the whole story in a nice block.  I’ve now caught up with those as well as the new Batgirl series.  I just began reading the Blackest Night series from issue 1.  Justice League Unlimited is a lot of fun too.  I really can’t get enough.

Speaking of super heroes.  For my birthday, Chris got me a coffee table book called “DC Comics Covergirls“.  Let me tell ya…*growl*…thems some sexy ladies in there.  Chris certainly knows my taste.  I’ve enjoyed paging through it so far…for the articles of course.  Yes I know…they’re not real. Stop destroying my dreams!

Continuing with the super hero theme, remember me talking about picking up metal working as a hobby a few months back?  Well, I’m finally making some headway there.  I finally bought a set of hammers.  I still need a few things before I can truly get started, but those were important.  I need to get a small anvil like object yet as well as some practice materials.  It’s looking to be fun though.

Also on the hobby front, I finally went to fencing last week.  It’s the first time I went to fencing in like…8 months I think.  I had said before that I wasn’t sure that I’d go to fencing again, but I’m glad I did.  The guys in the group assessed my skill level and told me that I know my stuff.  They had me put on my gear and play.  I haven’t gotten to free fight in a long time.  I don’t think I’ve actually gotten to at all come to think of it…not in the style I fight now.  I had plenty of bouts with the olympic style sabre fencing I learned on, but that was probably 8 years ago.  So it’s been a long time.

This experience was really uplifting and an incredible amount of fun.  I no longer feel discouraged.  In fact, they told me that if I wanted to, I could teach the basics to my roommates.  I was told I knew my stuff well enough to teach others!  How cool is that?!! I’m definitely going back.  I’ve since purchased breast protection and neck protection.  I’m just waiting for the shipment to arrive.  Yay physical activity!

Completely switching gears…I’m finally starting to feel sick of being single again.  It’s taken a year and a half almost.  I think I’m ready to start looking again.  I think that’s a good sign.  Chris and I are likely  heading to the twin cities this weekend, and who knows what may happen.  Most likely I’ll see many a cute lady, but will be too shy to say anything.  I guess I’ll have to get out of my comfort zone and stop being so shy.  Wish me luck.

A quick last note before I sign off, I recently walked into a tattoo shop to see how much they cost.  I’m considering getting a tattoo of the Wonder Woman symbol with rainbow banners on my right wrist.  I’ve thought about a tattoo before, but I think I’m more serious about it now.  I’m not sure just yet when I’ll get it done, but I think I want to.

Lastly…everyone’s favorite…the question of the blog:  Do you have or have you thought about getting a tattoo?  What is it of?

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Nerf Herding

Friday, February 12th, 2010

I bought a Nerf gun.  I’m such a nerd, but I still think Nerf guns are way fun.  I’d never own a real gun, but for some reason, firing off little foam darts out of a plastic toy shaped like a storm trooper blaster is just a joy.  I think everyone loves Nerf toys.  Seriously…I think it’s a universal thing.  Anyway, I’m sure I’ve been really annoying to my roommates as I run around the house shooting them in the butt with it.  I have grandiose plans of having a nerf gun war this summer.  How cool would that be?!!

Things have been pretty decent lately.  It took me a few weeks, but I finally got better from my cold / infections.  It’s nice to be able to breathe clearly all the time.  No major worries about my car or money.  In fact, I’ve even had a lazy weekend recently.  Those are uncommon at best.

The most exciting thing that happened since my last post was my mother’s 60th Birthday.  I drove home, and thankfully, this time it wasn’t a nightmarish drive through a blizzard.  That was nice.  Anyway, my Mother didn’t know I was heading down until a day or two beforehand. So it was a nice surprise.  We all chipped in to make it a really nice birthday for her and my dad (He has a birthday a week afterwards).  We got her a Kitchenaid mixer.  She’s been wanting one for a while, and my sister got a great deal on one.  So we all chipped in.  I also gave my mom my old laptop.  We were all surprised at how excited she was to get it!  She was thrilled.  She never spends time on the computer, and now she can whenever she wants to.  I was happy to pass that on to her.

My Dad has been coveting a new monitor for his computer for quite a while.  Since we couldn’t quote afford the one he wanted so much, we gave him about 100 bucks towards the monitor of his choice.  He’s since bought a 28 inch flat panel and loves it.  We also passed on some used surround sound speakers.  So he’s all set for watching Hulu now.  He loves it.  It was a good visit home.

The following weekend was my lazy weekend.  Saturday night, Chris came home at like…11:00 and asked me to go to the bar with him and his friend, Dave.  So on a whim, I got all dolled up and went out.  We met a very cool guy named Andre.  Andre is a New York City Fashion designer and architect.  He had recently returned from Sweden after designing and building a room in the famed Ice Hotel.  He was in Eau Claire visiting some friends and had also attended a party in his honor earlier in the day that Chris had also attended.  Andre seemed to really appreciate our conversation because we apparently had interesting things to say.  At the end of the night, Andre gave both Chris and myself his card and gave us hugs.  Several people noted that they didn’t get hugs, but we did.  Apparently Andre thought we were cool.  I’ve since friended him on Facebook, and Chris has been conversing with him regularly.  It was a good time.  Otherwise, no hottie girls hitting on me or anything…what else is new.

This weekend should be interesting.  I’m going to Ruby Camp to learn how to develop websites using a technology called Ruby on Rails.  Ruby is a programming language, and Rails is a platform in which developing is made faster.  I’m anxious to dig in.  I’ve spent time with it in the past, but never enough to actually build anything exciting.

Thursday is my first 29th birthday.  hehe.  Seriously, I’m not a person that worries about turning 30.  Of course I say that now being that it’s a year away, but I really think my 30s will be great.  My parents are coming to visit to celebrate.  Otherwise, I’m not really going to do much.  Birthdays have never been a huge thing for me.  I mainly look forward to the time off.

I’m planning on taking the 22nd and 23rd off just so I can enjoy a couple days.  My friend Addison has offered to come up on the 22nd so we can get Genderverse online.  I think it’ll be nice to have a personal work day to get that project live.  Then we can actually use it as a platform.  Then the 23rd will be a sleep in day.

Speaking of projects, I’ve had lots of ideas floating around for my super hero story.  I really need to get some of these projects and ideas moving instead of just floating around in the ether.  Maybe once Genderverse is up, I can put some energy into writing.  That’d be nice.

My life schedule is picking up though.  So we’ll see.  My plan is to start going to fencing every Wednesday now.  I’m also about to start being an LGBT youth mentor again.  We have our open house on the evening of my birthday.  It should be good.  I’ll be bringing some video games to draw in the kids.  I’m looking forward to being a mentor again.

I sat down tonight with Quay, who is organizing the youth group at the community center, and we had a great talk.  She shared some stories about being in the old youth group when I was mentoring before.  She told me that a lot of people were sad when I left for Milwaukee back in ‘06.  The group didn’t last long after I left I guess.  I feel a little bad about that, but at the same time, I needed the experiences I had in Milwaukee.  They really helped me grow and understand what I want better.  Still, it’s heartwarming to hear that I mattered and made a difference in those kids lives.

I mentioned in my last post that I have had something on my mind lately, and that’s still the case.  I’ve actually written out all of my thoughts already, but I haven’t posted it.  I think it needs a few revisits and rewrites before I get it out to the world, but it’ll definitely get posted soon.  It’s very personal and introspective, and I’m sure it’ll help me to get it out.

On a parting note, I’ve given thought to doing some video blogging again sometime soon.  I’ve had a lot of fun, creative ideas on how to approach it.  I don’t want to do it exactly like I was doing the experimental podcasts from a year ago, but I do want to have some fun with it.  We’ll see.  I’ll keep you posted.

That’s it for me this time. Here’s the question of the blog this time:  Do you still play with Nerf toys?  If not Nerf toys, are there any goofy, childish things that still put a smile on your face?

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Back in the swing of things

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

I went from a boring two week spell to a really friggin exciting two week spell!  That means I have interesting stuff to talk about.  How exciting is that?!  (suddenly erupts a smattering of golf claps)  Yes, yes, I’m sure you were all depressed after my last post and were hoping for a bounce back.  And you got it!

So, where to begin… On October 3rd, I went to a party.  I really wasn’t sure how it was going to go.  I had a feeling I wouldn’t know many of the people there. The party was for a friend of mine, Brian Hogan (@bphogan / @ecruby).  He apparently has a party every year like this for his birthday.  Sure enough, when I got there, he was really the only person I knew.  I felt really awkward and uncomfortable.  After about an hour, suddenly that all changed.  I was playing with my phone (like I usually do ’cause I’m an addict), and I hear this “Hey stranger, fancy seeing you here.”  I turn and it’s an old friend of mine, Jon, that I worked with at the help desk back at UWEC when I was a student.  I hadn’t seen him in almost four years.  At that point, the party became awesometastic.  Jon and I caught up for a while.  He even told me that I was his favorite person at the help desk (likewise, Jon).  We always had good times.

After that I came out of my shell and had a lot of fun.  I played Rock Band, chatted it up with people I didn’t know, and ended up staying until 3:00 in the morning.  I didn’t get to bed until about 4:00 am.  Not bad at all considering I wasn’t sure what to expect.  As it turns out (and I shouldn’t be surprised), I mix in well with Brian’s friends.  In fact, there was an interesting dichotomy going on.  There were the geeky programmers, and there were the people the geeky programmers brought with.  I mix well with both.  I spent about half the time chatting with the geeks and the other half chatting with the non-geeks.  I think it was a perfect blend.  I’ve been added to the official invite list for the coming holiday party too.  I look forward to it.

I did some shopping that weekend and finally found a copy of Dragonball season 1.  It was recently released on DVD as a digital remaster and uncut version.  I was a big fan of Dragonball Z maybe 9 years ago.  I never saw Dragonball, and after seeing the live action movie, even though it wasn’t great, I just had a sense of nostalgia.  Combine that with Josh, my sort of second roommate, also being into the show, I decided to get DB on DVD when it was released.  Josh and I have been watching it together ever since.  Wow…I never knew Dragonball was such a sexual / potty humor show.  Goku has never met or seen a girl when the series begins.  There’s a whole bunch of scenes where Goku is patting people on the crotch going “You’re a girl too!” or “Yup, you’re a boy!”.  I thought that was incredibly interesting.  The show is progressing very slowly, but that’s no surprise considering the series runs some 150 episodes long, and that’s just Dragonball…then comes Dragonball Z which is 250 some more episodes.  It’s been fun to bond with Josh with the show.  I’ll post more thoughts as the show progresses.

As I mentioned in the last post, Chris’s 30th was coming up, and I made sure to buy awesome gifts.  I went online to wbshop.com and looked through the Harry Potter selection.  I got him the Monster book of Monsters plush, “I solemnly swear I’m up to no good / Mischief Managed” transforming coffee mug, and the Dumbledore’s Army messenger bag.  Admittedly I spent too much because after that, I went out and bought party favors.  I probably dropped 125 dollars on his birthday, but I wanted it to be a good one.  It was, but I did put myself at a bit of a financial risk in doing so. Whatever, it was worth it.  For Chris’ birthday, we went to Manny’s Mexican seafood restaurant, which is Chris’ favorite.  It’s pricey at about $18 a plate average.  Still, it’s very good food.

I actually didn’t get to enjoy the food because for some reason service was a little slow that night.  Also that night were the board elections at the LGBT community center of the Chippewa Valley.  Since I was running, I had to be there in order to get elected.  I didn’t want to lose out on an opportunity to make a difference in the community, and Chris knew how important it was to me.  So he was ok with me disappearing for an hour or so to go to elections.  Unfortunately, despite our 6:00 pm reservations at the restaurant, the food wasn’t placed in front of us until 7:25.  I needed to leave around 7:30.  I ended up scarfing down a few bites, having it boxed up, paying and leaving.  I got to enjoy the company of Chris and friends, but not the food.  Oh well.

I got to elections, and started chatting with some people before the annual meeting started.  The program started, and the three of us that were running were given two minutes to give a presentation about who we were and what we wanted to do.  We all gave our 2 minutes and then came voting time.  It went pretty quickly.  At the end, announcements were made that I was one of the two elected to the board!  Hooray!  We then had a quick meeting of the board members to discuss some logistics, like when we’d have board meetings and who wants to be what on the board.  I ended up getting nominated and elected the Vice President.  That was unexpected to be sure!  I’m pretty thrilled though.  It feels good to be involved again.  Plus, it’s good experience for when I get my non-profit up and running too.

Back to the party, we had a great time.  We played a bunch of games, like Pit, the game of Pride, and an inflatable Penis battle game called “Cock Fight”.  Chris loved the gifts, and in fact, he’s said several times since the party that it was the best Birthday he’s ever had.  The group of us were up playing games and chatting until past 2:00 am, which is quite late for Chris.  What was shocking is that it felt like it was maybe 10:30 pm when we saw what time it actually was.  Once we noticed that, it was like we were all collectively hit by bricks.  Everyone was just exhausted.  What a great night though!

Sunday, we followed up our great party with a great Pumpkin carving night.  We had four pumpkins to carve, and they turned out fantastic.  I’ll post a bunch of pictures of the events along with this post so you can see them.  We ended up with six cups of pumpkin seeds to roast.  I took care of that and made some wonderful seeds that all of us are trying to moderate our intake of lest we gorge ourselves with them.  I used sea salts, butter, olive oil, and a spice called “Butt Rub”, which I got at a place called “Elegant Farmer” in Mukwonago, Wisconsin.  It was a great mix.  I highly suggest it.

Monday was another rush of a day.  Monday evening was my first trip back to Womens studies 301 with Professor Audrey Fessler, who is a very good friend of mine.  When I was in college, I used to lecture her Monday night class every semester.  Since I moved home, that opportunity all but disappeared.  Now that I’m back in town, she asked me to return, and I was excited to do so.  It was a 2 hour lecture to about 30 students.  It was a great group! They were a little timid with questions, and sometimes that happens.  I did a few things I don’t normally do with my presentations, like group activities.  I could definitely tell I was a little rusty, but overall it was a success.  I still have students’ questions to respond to via email.  I really want to make sure I address them all.

To add to all of those goings on, I also got hit with freelance work last week.  So the stress has been on me.  I still have one video to complete, which should happen tomorrow night.  I’m looking forward to next Tuesday evening, when all the stress is gone.  Speaking of Tuesday, I have another UWEC appearance coming up next week.  As mentioned a few posts back, I’ll be giving a forum on Tuesday, October 20th at 7:00 in the Arrowhead room of the Davies Center.  If you’re going to be in the area, stop on in and have a listen.  It should be fun.

This weekend will be a nice oasis in the middle of the sea of stress I’ve had lately.  A bunch of my lady friends from Milwaukee were a little disappointed that I couldn’t make it to Barcamp Milwaukee back on the first weekend in October.  So I suggested that I come down and visit sometime soon.  We could throw a little shindig.  So we are.  This weekend is geeky lady shindig.  I’ll be heading out Friday for some exciting geek fun with the girls.  So I guess you can look forward to my next post talking about that excitement.

So, question of the blog:  Are you a fall person?  What’s your favorite thing about fall?

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Stable Ground

Monday, July 20th, 2009

I guess I should begin this post with a simple update on the news from the last post.  I got the results from the hearing.  It was resolved in the company’s favor, but I didn’t have to repay anything.  In the end it was moot due to the new job scenario, but still…I would have preferred to win.  I understand why the judge ruled the way that it was ruled.  I mentioned the unfairness built into the situation due to my being unemployed and my opponent being a large corporation with a legal department.  I also made a point not to talk about my being taken advantage of at my former employer.  I didn’t want to seem like a huge whiner.  I know I did the right thing, and I stood up for it.  I will always have my dignity there.  I have no respect for my former employer though.  I will forever use them as a baseline for how to mistreat employees.  I was always told that you hate your first job or that your first job is always shit.  Now I know that from experience.  All that being said…the case is closed.  I’m officially done with them.  Time to move on and never look back.

On to brighter and happier subjects.  I have a job.  As of Thursday, I am officially full time employed.  I love what I do and I love who I work for.  I’m a developer now, and I still get opportunities for video work.  I really like my coworkers, and so far, I’ve felt stimulated and challenged by my work on a daily basis.  I enjoy going in, and I don’t feel like I have to rush out the door at the end of the day.  It’s wonderful, and I have faith that it will stay that way.  Life is good.  Wow…haven’t said that in a long time, right?

In other news, this past Wednesday was Scarlet’s birthday.  Scarlet is my orange kitty.  Yes, I know…I’m writing about my cat.  I’m lame.  Still, I’ve never had a pet from kitty or puppy age before.  So it’s a new and fun experience.  Bonding with a kitten is so different than bonding with a grown adult kitty.  So I had to celebrate a little bit.  We have so many catnip toys now.  Plus, I stocked up on lasers and treats too.  No party hats…this time.  Maybe next year.  :)

In other cat news, we’ve solved the Serenity peeing problem.  I did a little digging…no pun intended…and discovered that some declawed cats have sensitive paws.  It may actually hurt her to dig her paws into the standard kitty litter.  She may be associating pain with using the box.  So instead of a protest, like we initially thought, it could be a physical thing.  Serenity was declawed about the age of 2, and it may not have been done well.  We picked up some Yesterday’s News litter, which is recommended for cats that have just been declawed.  As soon as we put that out, she started using it all the time.  So it turns out that it probably was the pain issue.  It’s been over a week now, and so far so good.  No peeing on the floor anymore.   I have faith things will stay that way.

I hate to say it, but the idea of getting a new phone has been burning a hole in my pocket.  I’ve been going back and forth between iPhone and Android phone for a while.  I finally decided.  It came down to financial reasons.  To get an iPhone, I’d have to break contract on two lines with T-Mobile before I’d even be getting the iPhone itself.  So we’d be looking at like…700 bycks.  Plus, I really like my T-Mo plan.  So, I opted for the new myTouch 3G which comes out in August about the time 3G speed rolls out in my area.  I’m excited and am geeking out about it a bit.  Sorry if I blab on too much about it.  Oh look at that, I already have…again…sorry.

Jumping back in time just over a week…my parents came up to visit.  On top of that, Chris’ parents also came up to visit.  It was one full weekend, let me tell ya.  My mother is allergic to cats.  So my parents stayed at a hotel down the street.  Chris’ parents stayed here in the house.  Both pairs of parents wanted to go to the Northern Wisconsin State Fair, which just so happens to take place in my current town.

Now, the Official State Fair takes place in West Allis, WI, which is near Miller Park in Milwaukee.  It goes on for 10 days and has a pretty large permanent grounds.  My family figured that since the Northern Wisconsin one also bears the state fair name, it was going to be just as big.  That’s not actually the case.  As it happens, the NWSF is about the size of a decent sized county fair.  I found out about this maybe two days before they came.  So I had to come up with other things to do since we likely wouldn’t spend the whole time at the fair.

Instead we went to Irvine Park, which is adjacent to the fair grounds.  It’s also home to the local zoo.  That turned out to be a blast.  While the park isn’t as large as the Milwaukee Zoo, it does a lot of things right with the open, large natural habitats and beautiful surroundings.  It felt like a state park, and since my family spent a lot of time camping during my youth, we felt like we were at home.  My parents loved it.  The fair was enjoyable, but it didn’t compare to Irvine Park.

The weekend was a success.  My parents had a blast.  So did Chris’ parents.  I know mine are excited to come and visit again.  That makes me thrilled.  :)   They headed home Sunday morning.  I spent the rest of Sunday shopping for work clothes.  All in all, it was a very successful weekend.  It was also a very draining one.  I slept like a rock Sunday night.

Jumping forward to this past weekend…it was a much more relaxing one.  We went to see two movies.  We saw Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince on Saturday and Angels and Demons in the budget theater on Sunday.  I have to say…going to movies in the theater is less and less appealing these days.  In the Harry Potter showing, there was a blown subwoofer, the projector lens was dirty…enough that it was terribly distracting, and there was an infant in a carrier in the theater.  Why do people bring their 3 month old children to movies that could easily make them cry and ruin the movie for the rest of the film goers?  I never understood that.

Harry Potter was great.  It was very dramatic.  Less magic…more character.  It was a little anti-climactic due to the lack of a giant magic fight, but nevertheless, I enjoyed it.  Angels and Demons was ok.  The book was better.  The audio was terrible at the budget.  The center channel was so quiet that we couldn’t hear most of the first part of the film.  I really think seeing movies at home is much better nowadays.

I’ve been thinking about how I’m going to make the Wonder Woman costume as a whole.  I’ve been looking for patterns that might work for it.  I’m thinking a corset design might work to get started.  I’m not sure otherwise.  In the meantime, to practice my sewing skills, I bought a pattern for a cloak.  I’ve always wanted a pretty velvet hooded cloak.  Now I’m going to make one.  It should be fun.

I’m really starting to realize how jaded I am about my love life.  I’m starting to feel so frustrated that I’m actually getting a little angry about it.  I’m so sick of being attracted to straight women.  I walked past a beautiful woman today and found myself just grumbling.  My finding love seems quite impossible. None of it has helped my self esteem.  I’ve been kind of at a low point because of it.   I feel ugly, like unwanted trash.  I think it’s making my mood overall go downhill.  I’ve been a bit bitchy lately, and I know Chris isn’t such a fan of me when I get like that.  I wonder how long it’ll be before I heal from all of this.

To help with that, I picked up some Valerian Root.  It comes from the planet Valeris…no it doesn’t, but it sure sounds like something from Star Trek, doesn’t it?  It’s supposed to help with anxiety, insomnia, and even help with IBS.  So I get benefit with at least two problems at once.  I figure maybe anxiety reduction might help me past the bitchiness.  We’ll see.

Lastly, before I end this 1500 word monster of a post, I’ve decided to start asking a question of the blog each post.  I think it’ll be fun.  This post’s question is:  what’s the worst job experience you’ve ever had?

I look forward to hearing all of your stories in the comments.  Thanks for reading!

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Twitterpated

Sunday, February 22nd, 2009

Yes, it’s been a while.  Fair warning…this is a long post.  I took a break after the last podcast.  First things first, I joined twitter. You can follow me using the username janiukjf. I hope you enjoy all my pointless musings during my average day.

In the time since my last post…I got older.  I’m now 28! I feel pretty much the same as I did at 27.  I have to say, it was a nice birthday.  I took an extra day off from work and had a four day weekend for it.  It was very relaxing.  My family also took me out to dinner.  The food was family style Italian, and it was fantastic. I also got a few meaningful gifts.  My sisters gave me a shadowbox picture frame that is really nice.  My parents gave me to gorillapods (bendy and flexy camera tripods).  It was a lot of fun.

I have to be very vague here, but I spent a year and a half working on a project at work, and it’s finally…finally…launched.  It feels really awesome to know I saw the project through to completion.  Though, its easy to say no project is ever complete in my mind.  I also am going to start using something I call the JSI, or Job Satisfaction Index to which I will create an arbitrary color scale to represent my feelings.  Today’s JSI is orange with yellow polkadots.

While I talk about work, let me mention freelance.  The flash project I took on seems to be a bit troublesome.  I think I bit off more than I can chew.  I learn from examples, and I haven’t had anything to launch off of here.  I just don’t know where to start, and since I’m learning actionscript 3 from the beginning, it’s tough.  I decided to work with someone on the project, and from there, I’ll use that code as an example.  I think getting past this project will help me move forward with stuff I’ve been sitting on.  I’ve felt guilty working on other projects while having this on my plate.

Speaking of other freelance, I’ve had several meetings regarding the puppet video, and it’s been almost all non-stop frustration.  It’s hard to get through to the other video person that we can’t work with the footage we have.  So, I’ve written a script and a rundown for a short video showing the differences between analog and digital video and the progression of technology in video.  I’ll post it on here when I’m done with it.  We’re having a meeting in a week to discuss the project.  If we can’t move forward the right way, I’m not sure I want to be involved with it.

Things I do want to be involved in is the arts organization that I’ve been connected with lately.  I’ve been asked to produce a 30 minute film with them. They’re applying for a grant and production would start in June.  It’s not a lot of money, but it would be a lot of fun for me and everyone involved.  I think it’d be a great portfolio piece too.  More on that as it develops.

Jumping back in time a week, Valentine’s day, or as I like to call it, Singles Awareness Day, was a week ago.  I had a party for all my single friends.  It was a huge blast.  I made hand tossed homemade pizza for my guests.  We played Rock Band and Boom Blox until 3:00 am.  In fact, we managed to turn Boom Blox into a dirty game.  I haven’t had fun like that in a long time.  I plan on throwing another event in a couple months probably to a made up holiday.  Maybe it’ll be the blorthog party Chris and I have been thinking about for a long time.

My friend Tracy, who came to the party, had so much fun that she and I decided to plan a weekly gathering.  We’re going to do something like bowling or Rock Band.  Not sure exactly what yet, but no matter what, it’ll be a lot of fun.

Random stuff going on, my friend Adam came over a week ago.  Instead of doing geeky things like Rock Band, we did geeky things like build a TV antenna from plans we found online.  Amazingly…it works! Better than my powered antenna from Radio Shack.  We also started to build a PVC frame for a portable green screen.  I finished it to the plans, and it looks like it’ll work great.  I have a few modications I’d like to make.  I also need the green fabric yet.  Way to be a nerd, me!

Speaking of nerdish things, I’ve gotten back into the video game “Okami” of late.  It’s very much like the Legend of Zelda.  I’ve spent a bit too much time with it lately, but I had some somewhat negative things happen recently.  So as usual for me, it was escapism.

I’ve been kinda sad lately that Conan O’Brien has ended his run on Late Night.  I’m a big fan.  I know he’s going to be on the Tonight Show, but its still sad to see him leave the venue we know and love.  I just watched the final episode today.  It’ll be a couple months until we see him again.  I’ll be interested to see how Jimmy Fallon handles the reins of the show from now on.

Another show that I’ve been watching a lot lately is Exosquad.  If you don’t know the show, it was one of the best American animated series ever made and not seen.  It aired back in the early  90s, and it was more like an anime.  It was episodic and followed a briliant story arc.  They now have it on Hulu and recently added season 2.  I’ve been re-watching it, and it’s actually still as good as I remember.  There was even a moment that brought tears to my eyes.  I recommend it.

Of course, tonight I’m engrossed in a once a year TV production known as the Oscars.  I really like Hugh Jackman as host.  I love seeing the sing and dance routines.  Otherwise, the Oscars are pretty dull this year.  I know they’ve tried to make major changes to bring new audiences and change things up.  I think they need to do something else though.  It seems too much like every other Oscars.  The only thing that is different to me is the switched up order of awards.  We’ll see how viewership is.

Unrelated, but very interesting…my 10 year high school reunion is supposed to be this year.  Since there’s been no official communication about it, someone started a facebook event surrounding it.  So, it should happen at some point this year.  I think it’ll be very interesting.

In that same vein, I got an e-mail today from a friend I haven’t talked to since High School.  He decided to look into old friends and looked me up.  He saw everything out there on the web about what I’ve done in regards to gender and found this blog too.  His message was very complimentary towards all my work and what I’ve done.  It was wonderful to hear that, and I found myself inspired.  I really need to move forward with personal projects to get myself out there more as a gender activist.

This sparked a conversation with my mother about making a career out of this.  She actually thinks its what I should be doing! I have always thought my mom wanted me to do what makes money.  She’s always said things that suggest that.  I think after seeing me speak once back when I was in college, she saw what I can truly do.  It makes me happy to know I have the support of my mother.

That means its time.  TransLife is going to be my non-profit.  Let’s get this thing started!

OK…that’s it for this novel.  Wordpress tells me this is 1336 words long.  I don’t think writing books is going to be a problem.  Until next time…

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